Author Archives: sandiegoselfiequeen

Recently i attended a tamil wedding and i was explaining the rituals to my adult daughter . The previous day function where the bride’s father makes a promise to get his daughter married at an auspicious hour . The promise should be from both sides. The bride family welcomes the groom’s family why not bothContinue reading “Are our hindu marriage rituals outdated??”

We all have pain ,sadness,struggles with weight appearance,finance ,health and what not. We are constantly bogged down with worries of what may or may not happen. We worry about family ,their health,their wellbeing.We are not happy every minute of the day. So why is social media is filled up with posts with smiles and bestContinue reading “Keeping it real on Social Media”

One big area that needs change across the globe is Education. I am starting with India because I personally saw the lack of quality education despite continued efforts. I struggled to see where the gap was. Moreover, the disparity in educational opportunities for all children, especially girls seems to be dwindling If we want toContinue reading “You need change, Be the change”

What is this term?? Well i see a lot of it with the advent of social media it is on the rise. Let me try to define it. When people are trying hard to be who they are not. Trying to portray an image that is not their own. Fake essentially means not original. PeopleContinue reading “Fakeism”

Life was always good because I choose to be happy. I will listen to friends because I want to and I try to help. To me every problem has a solution waiting to be found. For a longtime my life for almost a decade was filled up with negative and low emotional quotient kinda people.Continue reading “Positivity is key in life”

Well it is the day after Oscars . We are in the year 2016 where people can fly on hover boards but we are still battling the same issues of discrimination and racism. What have we achieved after so many years since civil war. Inequality and injustice still there. We cannot create equals but atleastContinue reading “#leapday2016”

 Love is a feeling that is above all. To love someone is the greatest feeling of all. If you ask someone to define love many might get stumped or give totally different definitions. Love is a simple feeling that  can transform in to complex fast. Love is love !! It is  an invisible bond betweenContinue reading “Love hearts and Romance”