Life was always good because I choose to be happy. I will listen to friends because I want to and I try to help. To me every problem has a solution waiting to be found.
For a longtime my life for almost a decade was filled up with negative and low emotional quotient kinda people. I had nothing really in common except may be the fact I had a kid. I got tangled up in the world of interfering busy bodies. I felt trapped and emotionally disturbed. It was just stress build up due to petty jealousies.
i had no idea that good friends take advantage of you. Ok not delving too much two and a half years ago I distanced myself from all this negative drama and started enjoying my life my family and focusing on my career etc.life has been good.
i still feel the pull of these streets that I never want to revisit. You know how you have a terrible nightmare and you wake up not wanting to go back to sleep because you are afraid the nightmare might reoccur. When you live in the same place every now and then you are bound to pass through them. I just have to remind myself not to stop.
There are some people who think I need to move on and not look back. It is a part of your life that you can never come back to.
I believe that I have no right to judge others.However more often I feel that people so easy to judge you without knowing you.
I am afraid a certain kind of people are a red flag. The kind that talk too much about themselves and the world around them sucks. Sooner than later you realize that they are the ones sucking up all the air .
Walk away fine. Take advantage of others before you walk away just shows a side that no one will miss you and call you good riddance.
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