Double standards

It is funny the people who emit the most amount of hurt think that the world is out to get them and pretend to be victims.

These people stay in the same circumstance where they vent and vent but never bother what is happening around them.The term is full of themselves.They think the world manipulates them and uses them whereas they are the users and love people who give them praise. They also want to know everything about you but not give in return.

These are the people who compete to look better than you because you intimidate them. They often wonder why you have the life you have,why you have the friends you have.Try to stay away from these leeches.I need to learn to identify such people and stay away. They cannot even stand success of fellow women . They emit so much negativity on a daily basis. Everyone has issues that they deal with and sometimes get negative due to them. But to dwell in that and being pessimistic and why me attitude is bullshit.They judge everyone but cant stand even minute amounts of judgement from others.

If you are intelligent and deserve a good life ,Stop complaining and start working towards it.

I am a very logical person with a rationale. Being a feminist to the point that you put men down is utter nonsense. Learn to respect men and women alike. You want equality ,stop male bashing approach. Oh so they make money so that makes them superior says the woman sipping wine while he watches the kids.Really come on Learn to see the positives in your life and grow towards them.These are the women who think putting meals on the table is good enough. Good values and communication and consistent behavior is also part of good upbringing.I am also surprised at people who say i seldom get angry but spew venom in their calmness just like a snake.Would you not rather get yelled at and get real emotions . Instead of calm cold heart that only thinks of their own pain and suffering and does not look beyond.

Even when they behave badly they want the world around them to understand them even when they disrespect. I am sweet caring and self respecting. You try to walk all over me, guess what when you are done,you will find that i am long gone.You and your wretched loneliness and sit together and sulk.

I cannot stand such depressive people around me and often don’t realize it initially but then i am in communion with god who looks out for me and shows me how many positive people and love surrounds me. I love god not because he loves me listens to my prayers about myself and everyone i care about but because it is his love and teachings that help me rise above.

I cannot solve everyone’s problems but i can listen to it and try to show positives.I know i am a good person and will get hurt from time to time but you know what i am getting smarter and wiser. I know who loves me and deserves my love .I choose to be good and am only responsible for my karma. The only way to true friendship is through trust love and loyalty.Learn to give first to receive. When you doubt people and guess what it makes them question you as well.Once you learn giving without asking questions you will receive as well.

 

 

 

Published by sandiegoselfiequeen

I am fun loving party loving socialite mom and a selfie queen.I am also a human resources professional who loves technology. My motto is Live life to the fullest and party all the way.

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