Love is a feeling that is above all. To love someone is the greatest feeling of all. If you ask someone to define love many might get stumped or give totally different definitions.
Love is a simple feeling that can transform in to complex fast. Love is love !! It is an invisible bond between two people that is more powerful than any weapon possible. There is a love that parents feel towards a child and a child feels towards parents . Then there is this a Romantic love which I want to try to define .
i think for the longest time I have been in love with love. The first love that happens around the 12-14 year is more of a crush. Since until that point you have not felt this feeling towards someone. Just one glimpse of that person could keep you happy for days.
i think I fell in to my first crush just because the other girls I hung out with said they all had crushes. Yes peer pressure !! Clearly that could not be love.He was so handsome like a movie star and he had looked at me a few times and my friends noticed it. You don’t realize what love is till you are in it. You feel you cannot breathe. I am married to my love but I did not know how much until one defining moment.i might write another post talking about my love story because it would take over this post. Today when I look back I think I love him way more . It might not be that mushy poetry writing kinda love expressed in greeting cards. It is more in everyday caring about each other. We are both extremely passionate people who argue and fight for our respective point of view. We agree in the end not because we have to but we want to. Love is the greatest high you can ever get. No amount of alcohol or drugs can get you to this higher plane. Love when not reciprocated can push you to the lowest point in life as well. Sometimes people feel trapped in another person’s love. What does that mean. I feel that you should love someone and let them be. They love you back is their prerogative . If you trapped someone that is unhealthy obsession. Being in love makes you argue and fight because you care so much it actually hurts. Love infatuation obsession are all parts of how simple gets complex. We need balance in our lives by having individuality and self-respect.Valentines day is celebrated across the globe as a day for lovers expressing their love in flowers gifts and what not. Some people want to make a point by saying a massacre took place that day. I say you can say a prayer for their souls but any day that celebrates this greatest feeling in the world should be observed. When you walk across restaurants movie theaters , all you see is lovers hand in hand . Where can you find so much positivity ?? I love the month of february. Love is about giving unconditionally and letting go as well. There is a saying “it is better to be with the person who loves you if you can’t be with the person you love” Strange but if someone loves you that is the biggest form of flattery. Love someone if you haven’t already. It is totally worth it. Celebrate love often in new ways.
xoxo
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